Jeff: [Signs back up to eHarmony because the first time worked out so well. Sends message to cute girl.]

Jeff: Hi! [salutation followed by other words that were interesting enough to get a response]

Luan: Hi! Let's meet up.

Jeff: Sounds great. Yes, let's once I get back to the States.

Luan: Where are you at now?

Jeff: I'm in London working. Just finished a 150-mile race in Sahara down in Morocco.

Luan: Oh, okay...that seems like a totally normal and casual thing to do.

[years later with two kids and a dog]

Luan: This seems to be working.

Jeff: Yeah, probably safe now for us to make official^2.

Luan: Sounds good. We can invite family and friends this time.

Jeff: Cool. Let's have a wedding (read: vow renewal).